Sunday, April 29, 2012

Ambiguous....

{first, thank you to all your wonderful comments on my last post....I really appreciate your encouragement :) I agree, you never know what someone else is going through and how your story--no matter how big or small can help them....now on to this unrelated topic. lol}


I never thought that my children would have ambigious names
I haven't had names picked out since I was 5
It's a struggle to name someone.....it's for life!
When I named Kendall, I had NO clue that it was also a male name. I don't even know where the idea of her name really came from. 
But it fits, it's not too masculine, in fact I think it's more feminine than anything

Now, Ryleigh.....

she was originally NOT a Ryleigh
it was a choice of a middle name, but I couldn't decide {drew kept trying to push addison.}
We thought she would be a Lorelai up until the 31st {she was born on the 30th}
SO her name was changed at the last second. 
{charlotte/charly & brooke were also contenders}
Drew had more to do with her name than I did {so you can blame him if you don't like it. lol.}
Ryleigh Anne....{anne is also my middle name, ann is my mom & grandmas middle names--it had to be done :)} 
We chose to spell her name that way since it was more feminine. 
you would think...
she was first called a "he" when we went to get her blood drawn at like 3 days old
**sigh**
by the lady that did her paperwork! she knew the spelling and the middle name. grrrr....
the price you pay I guess. 
plus it doesn't help that our car seat is neutral {blue, purple, green, grey}
and our cover is grey/white/green BUT it has butterflies!!!
apparently girls can only wear pink or purple or they look like a boy.
we try to wear a headband to make sure people know....but still.
I'm pretty sure that she will be getting her ears pierced in about a month-after her first shots, just to add that extra --yes, girl....
but people will still call her a boy, they did with Kendall and Kyla --when they were wearing dresses!! 
whateves.

Her name fits her. She is beautiful.
and to the next person who calls her a he/him---I won't apologize for my dirty looks or attitude when I correct you ;)



3 comments:

  1. ha ha, well i love boy names for girls, obviously addison and frankie! i never knew addison was a boy name either until after we named her, would have been a good choice, drew! jk, i think ryleigh is super cute, and she'll have long hair soon enough. :)

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    1. ha...I forgot addison was also a boy name! I can only think of girls being named that. We can't wait until her hair grows longer! lol.

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  2. I like boy names for girls too! I always thought Kendall was a girl name until I suggested it and Greg was like "ew i knew this guys named Kendall and he was a total _____( fill in the blank)". I never knew! also apparently tatum is a boys name? I always loved that my name was Dani though, and it is clearly a boy name.

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